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If they say ‘no’, and you ‘convince’ them by being aggressive,it does 2 things:
1) it makes them feel desired
2) it gives them permission to enjoy it
Hear me out on the 2nd one.
Its one of the reasons rape fantasies exist, imho.
When you re raised with ‘they only want you for one thing, and you re a bad girl if they persuade you other wise as they’ll pump and dump while laughing st you for giving it up so easily’, that shit sticks in your head. Like, alll through sex. All your life.
It also couples your libido to being so desired/loved that they are overcome with needing you physically, before you yourself can be vulnerable and let go thst way. And the failsafe is…if you did get duped…you can tell yourself and others you did resist and say no, initially ( doesnt mean she wants to scream rape, just be ‘hard to get’ to protect her ego)
Additionally…guys being decisive, confident, yet wanting you and acting gentle, while clearly struggling to hold back his physical strength is a turn on for many girls.
It’s the guy drenched in sweat lifting something strenous to help you, and easily accomplishing it fantasy. It’s a display of testosterone.
So yeah, combine all that shit together, and a lot of girls do get off on ‘reluctance’ play, you could call it.
( hell, i could go on with other factors that can intensify fetish/behavior, like being raised by an authoritarian dad, as he informs your lovemap as a girl, according to psychology)
That kinda play is risky, though, especially if you end up misreading each other’s cues. And not worth risking rape for, for sure.
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